Let me state this at the beginning: I am a bottom. A marathon-sex, Preparation-H, take-dick-like-a-champ bottom. I tend to outlast tops.
Welcome back to round four of an intense and thrilling journey into a number of terms I thought I could describe very quickly in a single post several weeks ago and it turned out I was wrong and now here we are! You know? Any stand-alone quotes included as definitions that are not otherwise cited came from your survey responses.
It generally implies that the bottom is somehow overstepping his bounds and trying to make the top behave a certain way. Maybe the sub was afraid that their top would be bored by perfect obedience and leave them. I want to know what my submissive wants!
I feel it is important to reiterate that yes, essentially the submissive has the control. She sets her limits and her boundaries, and of course, her Dominant should respect this. But she also chooses to submit to her Master, because she wants to give up that power.
Photo by Emerson Ricard. There are two reasons why I do not top : One, topping takes a lot of effort, and I prefer not to work up a sweat. If I were to leave the bottom, I would be moving away from the sexual expectation to which straight cis women are held: to be penetrated.
How could I be so remiss of addressing a topic which comes up often in sub group discussions? Ah well… here is my take on the issue. Topping from the bottom is when a submissive tries to control the scene in various ways.
This was so needed and i thank you so very much for writing it for me to discover. It means that the Top is controlling the details and flow of the scene. I got a new gig that I can tell you about soon.
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